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Let's Talk About Body Image.

Men actually do talk about body image. But in a different way. We take gym selfies, post thirst traps on Instagram, talk about how swole we’re getting or post about never missing leg day. What we don’t talk about is body dysmorphia, eating disorders, stretch marks, confidence issues or celebrate any other body than what’s on the cover of Men’s Health that month - and that needs to stop.

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[Life Update 2018] Africa & The First Months of Travel

Hey Pals! Time for a Life Update! I thought an update was long overdue since Africa so here’s your fill. I’ve just finished our 42-day tour in Southern Africa and it was amazing! We saw all of the Big Five animals (Lion, Elephant, Rhino, Leopard, Buffalo) and the landscapes were b-e-a-utiful. So the tour took us around 7 countries in 42 days. As you can imagine…

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Holding Hands as a Gay Couple

I disappointed myself. When we were in Portugal, we spent the day at a water park. While we were walking around to get to the slides, Scott held my hand and I felt weirdly uncomfortable and let go. It wasn’t because I’m adverse to affection (we’re normally Velcro’d together) and it wasn’t because I was grumping with him. It was because I didn’t want people to stare at us…

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Impostor Syndrome - How I Overcome It.

Feel like you’re “winging it” and it’s a matter of time before someone calls you out? Same here! I first heard of Impostor Syndrome from one of my friends (he’s a Counselor). We were talking about Anxiety and I was ranting about how I didn’t feel like I was good enough to get another job in IT – despite all the good feedback I've had and 5 years of being a top performer in my team.

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