Nearly Losing a Toe in Africa

OK so some people will say that title is exaggerated but they don’t know. It was Day 32 on our Africa Tour and we were on the truck making our way to the Otjitotongwe Cheetah Park (try saying that fast!). Our truck was called “Ben” and he had been quite reliable until he took a few days off in Livingstone. The door to the back of the truck had a lock on it one day but not the next.

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Holding Hands as a Gay Couple

I disappointed myself. When we were in Portugal, we spent the day at a water park. While we were walking around to get to the slides, Scott held my hand and I felt weirdly uncomfortable and let go. It wasn’t because I’m adverse to affection (we’re normally Velcro’d together) and it wasn’t because I was grumping with him. It was because I didn’t want people to stare at us…

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High Functioning Anxiety - Why I Don't Seem Anxious

People are usually surprised when they find out about my Anxiety Disorder. They can't believe that the same guy who once gave one of the Dreamboys a lap-dance in front of a crowd also walks out of shops in fear of being spoken to. They can't believe that the confident guy who has great work relationships, can also have an anxiety attack at the thought of making a dinner reservation.

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Why I Rebranded from Nomad Nevets

If you follow me on Social Media, you're probably aware that I've decided to rebrand my blog from "Nomad Nevets" to "Anxious Adventurer". I've been mulling it over for the past few months and it was starting to cause me some major anxiety - funnily enough! After chatting to a few pals, they reaffirmed my decision and I decided to take the leap and move away from Nomad Nevets.

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Advice for Anxious Digital Nomads

Obviously, I'm an Anxious Digital Nomad. It goes without saying but if the thought of living a life with constant travel, uncertainty, flexibility and spontaneity scares you a little, you're not alone. Since I decided to travel full time, my mind has been flip flopping between extreme elation (OMG I'm going on a never-ending holiday how fucking cool is that) to the familiar state of extreme panic…

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Plan the Perfect Weekend in Aberdeen, Scotland

Scott and I have become somewhat specialists of planning the perfect weekend stays in Aberdeen. Since Scott lived 30 miles north of Aberdeen and I lived 30 miles south, it quickly became our half way meeting point for spending time with each other. We both had full time jobs in the city center too so the majority of our time was spent living the city life.

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Toilet Terror in Killarney, Ireland

At the start of my journey as a blogger, I thought it would be a smart idea to invest in a ticket to TBEX (Travel Blogger Exchange). It's a conference for Travel Bloggers & Industry Professionals to gather from all around the world and network, learn skills and get a bit drunk. It became one of the best decisions I could have made but I'm still amazed I actually did it!

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The 3 Best Things for Mental Health Self Care

I’m in touch with my feelings and emotions, as well as knowing my limits and abilities. Despite this, I can sometimes drop the ball on Mental Health Self Care. Back in 2017, Madalyn Parker tweeted her CEO’s reply to her email about taking a Mental Health Day. He showed compassion and praised her for reminding everyone of the importance of using Sick Days for Mental Health.

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Impostor Syndrome - How I Overcome It.

Feel like you’re “winging it” and it’s a matter of time before someone calls you out? Same here! I first heard of Impostor Syndrome from one of my friends (he’s a Counselor). We were talking about Anxiety and I was ranting about how I didn’t feel like I was good enough to get another job in IT – despite all the good feedback I've had and 5 years of being a top performer in my team.

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Solo Travel in Europe - A Week in Italy

I always thought that travelling solo was for the extroverted, confident traveller who could talk their way across the world and make friends at the drop of a hat. This is why I always put it off because that’s not me… I eventually got to the point in my single life where I needed to take some action, disregard my anxiety and do it solo. I decided to go with Italy, because of carbs and Italian boys. 

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Essential Gifts for Backpackers

Confession time... I'm obsessed with all those travel trinkets and gadgets. I love a practical gift though and most of them make travelling SO MUCH easier and much less hassle! Around any special "gift-giving" holiday, I'm always hoping that my family are a bunch of mind-readers and know exactly what to get me! To be fair, I'm a pretty difficult person to buy for.

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Beat Hostel Anxiety When Travelling

If you’re like me, the thought of staying in a hostel is slightly terrifying. It might seem like a really insignificant thing for some people – head off on your travels, save a bit of money by booking a hostel, meet a few people, have a few nights out and chill. To me, it’s an opportunity for my anxiety to convince me that everything that can go wrong, will go wrong.

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Windsor Castle Whirlwind Tour

I had been working in London for a few weeks before I started to feel guilty that I hadn’t seen many of the big sights or surroundings. I was too busy commuting, spending my time in the museums and dancing until the early hours in G.A.Y Late Nightclub! When my pal said he was going to be in London and asked if I wanted to go see Windsor Castle, I jumped at the chance.

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What is Anxiety?

I've had Anxiety for a long time. Whenever something big happens, I find that knowing the ins and outs of whatever it is helps. This might be a need to make sure I’m prepared for that “worst case scenario” that I always convince myself will happen, or maybe I’m just curious and it occupies my mind.

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